Capricorn sun and cancer moon men, are they always testing you?

I feel like my boyfriend who is a capricorn sun, cancer moon and venus in aquarius is always testing me. He comes across all wild and crazy.. open minded to ual exploration, s ect.. and then when i say ok let's do it. He get's all weird and says no not now, i just want to be with you.. I feel like he acts open minded but really doesnt want it and is always testing my reaction. I am an aquarius sun and moon so I am really open minded and down to explore:) Do capricorn cancer combinations always test you?? and what ways have you experienced this? Your experiences and opinions are much appreciated!! thanks guys and gals!