How do i cooperate with my illiterate and lack of understand husband?

I think you guys misunderstand me. When i said my husband wants a favor in return if he do something for me i met for eg if my food hurt and i ask him to rub he will do it but at the said time he would want me to rub his back or give him a mage and if i said i am tired he will get annoyed with me. This morning i had to do the laundry and cook lunch and in order me to finish on time to meet to work for 8:00 am i have to wake up at 5:00 am, it was after 5 and i was still on the bed and my husband wanted to have i told we can't do that now i have to get off the bed so i can finish to go to work, because of this he get annoyed and stop talking to me, he did not